The Power of Gratitude: A Reflection on Privileges and Intentional Living

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The Power of Gratitude

A Reflection on Privileges and Intentional Living

Recently, I had a thought-provoking conversation with one of my mentees from Uganda that left me both shocked and deeply reflective. She shared a cultural practice from her community where girls and women are excluded from eating certain nutritious foods, including eggs. Initially, I was stunned. Eggs, a main food many of us take for granted, are a rich source of nutrients essential for growth and overall health.

As she spoke, my mind drifted to my own experiences during pregnancy. I vividly remembered how crucial it was for me to eat at least one egg every day during the first trimester to support my health and that of my baby. I thought about the number of children I have and the cumulative duration of all my first trimesters. That’s a lot of eggs! I was privileged to have access to them without restrictions or prohibitions. This realization was sobering. While I had the freedom and resources to consume something as simple as an egg for my well-being, there are women and girls whose health and growth are compromised due to cultural norms or economic limitations. This stark contrast brought me to a point of deep gratitude for the seemingly simple things I often overlook in my life.

In many ways, the ability to access basic needs like nutritious food, education, or healthcare is a privilege. Yet, because these things are routine in our daily lives, we rarely pause to acknowledge their significance. For some, eating an egg is not a matter of choice but one of tradition, economics, or availability. This Christmas season, as we gather with our loved ones to celebrate, it’s worth taking a step back to reflect on the many blessings we enjoy. Gratitude is not just about appreciating the grand gestures or achievements; it’s about recognizing the small, everyday privileges that quietly shape our lives.

Intentional Gratitude: A Path to Self-Discovery

Gratitude has a transformative power. It shifts our focus from what we lack to what we have. For emerging female leaders, especially those on a journey of self-awareness and healing from past negative experiences, gratitude serves as a grounding tool. It helps us reconnect with the present, appreciate our progress, and foster a positive mindset for growth.

Here’s why intentional gratitude matters:
1. Gratitude Builds Resilience
When you take time to reflect on the good in your life, it creates a buffer against life’s challenges. You acknowledge your strength, support of others, and joyous moments which carried you through tough times.

2. Gratitude Cultivates Humility
Recognizing your blessings nurtures a sense of humility. It reminds you that no one succeeds alone and that even the small things like having an egg to eat can be a result of collective effort and divine provision

3. Gratitude Fuels Growth

Being thankful doesn’t mean settling. It means acknowledging how far you’ve come while staying motivated to pursue what lies ahead. Gratitude is the balance between contentment and ambition.

Reflections for the Season
As we celebrate this festive season, I encourage you to take intentional moments of gratitude. Think about the things you might have taken for granted this year—the food on your table, the roof over your head, the love of family and friends, and even the opportunities to grow and learn.

Think about the women and girls in places where these basic things are either restricted or inaccessible. Let this reflection inspire not guilt, but a commitment to be more empathetic and intentional in how you live and serve others.

Practical Steps to Practice Gratitude

  1. Start a Gratitude Journal
    Each day, write down three things you’re grateful for. They can be as simple as the air you breathe or the support of a loved one.
  2. Express Gratitude to Others
    Take a moment to thank someone who has made a positive impact in your life this year. A kind word or a heartfelt message goes a long way.
  3. Be Present in the Moment
    During your celebrations, focus on the people around you. Appreciate their presence and the joy they bring into your life.
  4. Give Back
    Find a way to extend your blessings to others. Whether it’s through donations, mentorship, or simply being there for someone, giving amplifies gratitude.

A Call to Reflect
As you close out this year and prepare for the next, ask yourself: What are the small things in my life that I have overlooked? How can I carry a spirit of gratitude into the new year?

Let this season remind you of how far you’ve come and inspire you to live with purpose, grace, and gratitude. And as you reflect, remember that your journey is uniquely yours, filled with lessons and blessings meant to shape you into the best version of yourself.

Now, it’s your turn. Share one thing you’re grateful for this year in the comments or with a loved one. Let’s celebrate gratitude together!


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